Joel and Mary Beeke have spent decades studying, teaching, and living what the Bible says about marriage.

In a culture where relationships are increasingly fragile and confused, their message is both simple and deeply countercultural: strong marriages are built on holiness, kindness, sacrifice, and a shared love for God.

Joel Beeke is a pastor, theologian, and author of more than 100 books. Mary Beeke is a teacher, writer, and longtime pastor’s wife who has helped generations of women and families cultivate strong Christian homes.

Together they wrote How to Build a Godly Marriage: 12 Principles for Flourishing and Lasting.

In this conversation we explore the biblical foundation of marriage, why many couples slowly drift apart, and how Scripture provides a model for love, respect, friendship, and lifelong commitment.

Joel and Mary also explain the Puritan understanding of marriage — often misunderstood today — and why holiness, not emotional intensity, is the true foundation of lasting happiness.

If you want to build a strong Christian marriage, lead your household well, and recover the deeper wisdom of the Christian tradition, this conversation offers both practical guidance and time-tested insight.

In this episode

• The biblical foundation of Christian marriage

• Why many couples gradually drift apart

• Sacrificial love and respect in marriage

• The Puritan vision of marriage and happiness

• Why holiness produces lasting joy

• The importance of kindness and communication

• Building trust and unity in marriage

• Raising children with responsibility and faith